How to get a girlfriend
Christian King
Hey guys, I just wanted to take a second to share this with you - in less than 1 month I was able to get a girlfriend. For quite some time I was stumped when thinking about how to get a girlfriend. Fortunately, after a bit of homework and some trial and error I found the path - that worked for me at least.
You know what, I've been in a relationship for over 8 months now and I've actually been able to help a few people and give some advice, it's been pretty cool. But right now I am going to tell you what I did exactly in regards to getting a girlfriend.
Firstly I decided that what I was doing wasn't working. I made a conscious effort to change a couple key points in my life:
The way I dress
My level of fitness
The way I carry myself
Become more outgoing and funny
More changes probably came about over that one month period, those are just a couple that I was consciously aware of. As I said before I did a bit of homework, but a lot of trial and error. This is where most guys go wrong.
The homework that I did was 2 fold. First I signed up to high status humor. This is a 12 week course but I thought I'd give it a shot anyway. It made me consciously aware that I wasn't funny and was really the starting point of my success. I finished the 12 week course and it has had a pretty noticeable effect on shaping my personality. We'll worth your time in my opinion.
The next part I did was reading The Tao of Badass. I figured humor plus a somewhat structured method and set of routines would cover my bases pretty well. Read The Tao of Badass Review and see if it is something that will suit your personality.
So I started watching the videos from high status humor and I read over The Tao of Badass a couple times in the first 2 weeks. All of this was done while making a conscious effort to go out and meet people. Here's the real key - take what you learn and apply it. I did. I got a girlfriend in less than a month because of it.
Use your social circle and friends to your advantage. This is an easy in for you if you're having a hard time meeting new women. I also want to note that although getting a girlfriend was on my mind - it wasn't my priority. Any time you come across as needy or it appears like you're too invested in the outcome you won't succeed. You might end up as her friend... but that's not what we want.
I went out a couple nights a week with friends, I was more social, I used humor to my advantage. This is a huge help - humor has an amazing ability to completely disarm women. Approaching women is a non issue. Even being on week 4, I had enough of an arsenal to make opening and talking to new women a breeze. I backed this up with the System in Josh Pellicers book and that was about it.
Anyway, I was out one night and an old friend of mine was with some people I'd never met before. I was quickly introduced and everything ran its course. We started see each other exclusively and I haven't been happier.
If you have any questions or just need some help because you're in a rut, hit me up at Christian(at)gettingagirlfriend.net and I'll do my best to help you.