Get Your Life in Order First Then Get the Girl

Are you under the impression that somehow getting a girlfriend will solve all your problems?  If you are searching for a missing piece and you don’t have your life in order then getting a girlfriend will just add more to your plate.  So what can you do:

Get your life together

Yep, it is extremely important to have all the pieces in your life together and balance in harmony.  If you are extremely dedicated to your work, your social life might be lacking.  If you’re out partying too much, you might not be taking care of your body.

Make sure the key components of your life are in good standing, namely your:

Family
Friends
Job
Finances
Health
Hobbies

If you’re in severe debt and it’s all you can think about, take some time off and get it handled.  The last thing you should be doing is neglecting one part of your life because you think it’s more important. 

Look at it from a woman’s perspective, what’s more attractive:

A) A guy who has no friends and doesn’t talk to his family, doesn’t really care about his health and is solely focused on picking up women or

B) A guy who has his life together, has a purpose and goals that he’s working towards.  This guy has time for his family and has an active social life.

That’s right, I think the latter is more attractive.

The key component of this article is balance.  It is necessary in all facets of life – so decide right now to make a change.  Grab a piece of paper and jot down all the things that are holding you back.  Why is your life not complete?  Go through the key components of your life listed above and decide which you are happy with and which could use some work.

When you’ve truly got yourself handled to a certain degree, success with women will be effortless.