The Guys Guide to Flirting

When it comes to flirting, most guys haven’t got it dialed in correctly.  Those who try to flirt in subtle ways end up being overlooked and put in the friend zone.  Those that come in over the top will get blown out very quickly.  You need to be somewhere in-between, not too aggressive, but not too subtle.

Let’s kick off the first point with one word: relax!  This is important, if you cannot be comfortable and relaxed around women your success will be minimal.

Remind yourself that everybody has flaws, even the most beautiful people are insecure.  Sometimes more so than you think.  You are the one giving value in the interaction, and you provide the good emotions, there is no neediness or fear of loss.

The basis of flirting is being playful!  If you are a serious person take a step back for a second, this could be one of your major problems when it comes to flirting with women.  Recall previous interactions, are they fun, exciting, are people laughing?  Being playful is extremely important.

So how do we become playful?

We don’t take anything too seriously for starters.  You want to be able to tease and enjoy the woman’s company.  Treat her like your bratty little sister and if she steps out of line, call her on it.  Whenever you’re busting her balls and being playful, make sure you’re smiling and she knows you’re playing around or you will get blown out and called an asshole or a jerk.

If you’re going to tease her, make sure it’s something in her control, like her shirt, or a mannerism, not her weird shaped nose.

Remember, be playful, but don’t go overboard.  It’s sometimes easy if you’ve been teasing her and busting her balls to get her reacting to you, but eventually you have to show her you’re normal side.  Slowly reveal your personality too her, and yes, you can be nice to her. 

Take that nice behavior, and mix in sexual tension, this will keep her from putting you in the friend zone.  Use your touch to reward her when she does something you like, and take it away if she does something you don’t. 

To sum it up you want to be relaxed and playful; however, you also want to add an element of niceness to your interaction so you’re not thought of as a complete jerk, all the while touching and building a great rapport and connection.

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