So you’re interested in getting a girlfriend, but you have no clue where to start. You’re in luck; you’ve just found a quick rundown of how to get a girlfriend. This will probably be just the beginning however, and will in turn open many doors including improving your ability to attract and meet new people, focus on the things you enjoy and really be the person you know you can be.
That special one
Let’s start off with a very common problem that a lot of guys have – they want to be more than friends with a girl who they’ve been friends with for a while. Now, this is a difficult area and for the most part and it’s better to just move on – but for those of you who are completely love struck, Master Pick Up Artist Clark Cassidy, author of Successful Seduction, is in the midst of creating a book to help you get out of the friend zone – called From Friend to Girlfriend. I will update you when this product is available.
As a rule of thumb though, to get that special one you must be able to get them all. It’s that simple.
Start Dating
Bet you didn’t think of that one. Perhaps you were hoping she would fall into your arms without you leaving the house. Not gunna happen, sorry! Get out there and start living it up, meet people, get phone numbers, set up dates and have some fun. You are not going to find a girl unless you start looking.
Have a cool lifestyle
This is important! Do you think she wants to be with someone who’s boring, generic, with no real passion? Of course not. She wants someone with a cool life, something that is exciting.
“We’ll, I do computer programming, does that count?”
NO!
“Actually, I’m kinda busy this weekend, I’m going rock climbing.”
This is far more interesting. Get out there and start doing what you really enjoy, this is part of the key to getting and keeping a girl – similar interests.
What kind of girl do you want?
You need to be very clear about this. Go over in your head exactly what type of girlfriend you want to have. Do you want a skater girl, an emo girl, a preppy girl? Make sure you know exactly what you want, this will help you tons in finding somebody compatible with you.
Experiment
Once you get a girlfriend, you will realize that she may not be the person you really want to spend time with. Finding a girl you’re compatible with is difficult, hence why you need to have an active lifestyle and be clearly on what type of girl you want.
If you’re really lost, go out and talk to anybody that looks interesting, some people will surprise you.
Move forward every date
So you’ve had your first date, it went well, now what? The key is to progress every date. Move it forward in the amount you touch her, the amount you reveal about yourself ect.
Make sure you’re not talking about what she does for work on the 3rd date, that’s basically going backwards. Build rapport and move forward all the time.